do dark times really lie ahead ?

after reading this, a question that has been hovering at the back of my head begs analysis.

i’ve spoken about it before as well, and even if i have been disparaging about the reaction of people to a lot of the mails i have received, some current developments mean second thoughts should be had. if not third.

orkut is, and always has been very open in terms of structure: everyone finds everyone, meets anyone, can read about anyone, can add anyone. the concept was that you would not invite someone you do not know to orkut. however, making gmail - and hence orkut - available to anyone kinda kicks that idea in the teeth. orkut is not the “trusted circle” of friends they call themselves anymore. the effect is already seen - fake profiles are created for every possible misuse - whether slander, paedophilia, or just a misguided sense of fun.
scraps are literally meant to be ’scraps’: pointless tid-bits. and should be used that way. people misuse them, talk about everyone on them - there will be consequences to acting thoughtlessly. i think orkut scraps were designed to be quick ‘hey-how-are-you’ messages, not personal ads. or long messages about the self. are we still worried about the content being publicly accessible? delete all scraps. i have nearly 2000, would keeping them help me? i think not. deleted.
how restrictive is orkut when it comes to details ? you can choose who can see what, some generic details are open to all. those details, i should think, are pretty common. or obvious. religion, language, books, music.. these are shared by a wide majority. i see now that ‘google talk id’ is common knowledge - i.e. can be seen by everyone - which is stupid. can i change that ? only if i disable google talk+orkut. which is pointless integration i have come to believe. disabled.
i’m not saying that these are the only issues, there are more which i may be skipping over. when they do occur to me, there will be updates. the point is that this source of possible privacy breach can be controlled to some extent.

now, for the question of whether its safe at all. there are two parts to it. the first depends on what level i stop at for restricting privacy. the second is pertaining to how far misuse by a third party affects me.


future fanboy warp

back to the future and the sims have been favourites for a long time, but this really goes to extremes in fanboyism.

a complete timeline of one of the most convoluted parallel futures storylines.
and a sims 2 version of the TomKat wedding. now with jumping on couches and an italian chalet.
plus predictions from microsoft. guess why its out there.
wow. just wow.

terpsichore

A step. Another. Hands extended to hold.

Sidestep. Step back. Unclasp hands for the twirl.

Twirl. See the smile on her face. Time the end to meet her in the hold again. Smile back at her upturned face. Place head over hers, as it rests right… there. Move serenely in the music, the two of you comfortable in the moment, in the hold, in the semi-embrace.

Feel her breathe against your chest as the music slows, the moment lingers, time barely seems to exist.

The movement has slowed to a gentle sway with music that is felt, rather than heard. Both your feet move in synchronisation, the merest of steps mirrored perfectly. You hold her, she holds you. Slower.. slower.. and for a moment the two of you aren’t moving at all. Just standing in the others arms, neither of you realising it. Eyes slowly fall shut.
Bliss.

Open your eyes suddenly, and realise your hands are holding… nothing.

Wish there was someone there for once. To dance the night away.

Terpischore was the Greek muse of dance.

pass the candle

go ahead, light one. it possibly helps.